Jessica's Transgender Library
As a person who used to be more into books than real people, I've
read about more than acted upon my transgenderism over many years.
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Some interesting works of fiction involving characters who change
their gender include:
And for non-fiction:
- Virginia Woolf's "Orlando" about a long-lived person who starts out
as an Elizabethan nobleman and ends up as a modern (well, 1928) woman.
This one is Literature.
- Alan Friedman's 1974 "Hermaphrodeity" (yep, I've been reading about/
avoiding acting upon this for over 40 years) about the complicated
life of a hermaphroditic Harvard student/anthropologist/activist,
with lots of interesting history of sex and Cambridge scenery woven into it.
- John Varley's science fiction short stories and novels starting with
the 1976 short story "Picnic on Nearside" about a future where people
change back and forth between genders. I read that story when it
first came out and thought, "Wow! That's a future where I want to live!"
The short stories have been collected in "The John Varley Reader."
"Steel Beach" is a novel in the series which deals at length with a
lot of gender change issues.
- Edward Swift's 1978 novel "Splendora" is about a person who has left
a small town as a man and returned as a woman (in stealth mode) to be
the town's librarian. It's an interesting novel of small town
characters with some interesting gender-related twists.
- Chris Bohjalian's 2000 novel "Trans-sister Radio" takes place
in Vermont and does a pretty good job of laying out the complications
which ensue when someone in a social network changes their gender.
This is a good entry book for people without much experience of
people changing their gender.
- Sophie Labelle has compiled a number of her web cartoons about
a young but very aware trans girl into "Down With the Cis-tem" and
self-published it on Etsy. I think that it offers quite a lot of
insight into how people perceive gender.
- Joanne Herman's "Transgender Explained For Those Who Are Not" is
a good starting place in print. I bought several copies to loan to
- Grace Ann Stevens' "No! Maybe? Yes! Living My Truth" (Lexington, MA:
Graceful Change Press 2014) and Dorie Clark's "Reinventing You: Define
Your Brand, Imagine Your Future" (Boston: Harvard Business Review Press, 2013)
look at identity and self-branding from psychotherapeutic and business
points of view. Both are by friends; I argued ideas with Grace for
years before we transitioned and have known cis-gendered Dorie for years
and followed her Harvard Business Review blogs about personal branding.
- "The Lives of Transgender People" by Genny Beemyn and Susan Rankin
(New York: Columbia University Press, 2011) is a scholarly consideration
of mostly transwoman.
- Reid Vanderburgh's "Transition and Beyond: Observations on Gender
Identity" (self-published, 2011) is more from the transmale side, but
with lots of examples.
- "Trans Bodies, Trans Selves: A Resource for the Transgender Community",
edited by Laura Erickson-Schroth (New York: Oxford University Press, 2014),
is an encyclopedia of transgender life and theory, a bit big to plow through,
but useful for answers to questions. The compiler is a cis-gender psychologist,
but many trans people contributed to the text.
- Reverend Sarah Carpenter-Vascik's "Religion, Faith, and the GLBT
Community: A ground level view from a faithful exile" (Denver:
Outskirts Press, 2012) looks at the Bible as a source of support
rather than contradiction of LGBT life.
- "Letter For My Sisters: Transitional Wisdom in Retrospect",
edited by Andrea James and Deanne Thornton (Oakland, CA: Transgress Press, 2014),
is somewhere between nonfiction and autobiography, offering advice from
post-transition trans people that they learned in the process.
And for autobiography:
- The first transexual autobiography I read was Canary Conn's 1974
"Canary," which I re-read several times. It came out in paperback
in 1977, I was living alone at a time when, looking back,
I maybe should have transitioned.
And then there is a 25-year gap living as a person who was referred
to in my presence by some of my best friends as one of the least
self-aware people they knew...
- Dierdre McCloskey's 2000 "Crossing," is an interesting story by
a well-known economist of her transition at the University of Chicago.
It is written in a somewhat strange style, with maybe a few too many
details of the changes in her life, though I can identify with some of
- Jenny Boylan's "She's Not There" came out in the fall of 2003 between
my first and second gender therapy appointments and simultaneously
scared me and reassured me that I was not alone. Jenny, a professor
at Colby College in Maine and rock musician, has been a role model for
me as she transitioned within her existing life the way I am, instead
of starting fresh, which has in the past been what people did when they
transitioned. Her second memoir, "Im Looking Through You: Growing Up Haunted",
came out in 2008 and conveys more awareness of her social and (mostly past)
family context. Jenny's third book, "Stuck in the Middle with You" came
out in paperback in 2014 and discusses her spouse and two boys (who are
now off in college) more than the first two.
- Helen Boyd's 2003 book "My Husband Betty" might be helpful for significant
others. Her second book in 2007, "She's Not the Man I Married"
hit pretty close to home as my situation evolved and is more sypathetic to
significant others of trans people.
- "Crossing Sexual Boundaries," published in 2005 and edited by Ari
Kane-DeMaios and Vern Bullough, collects brief autobiographies which
show both the range and similarity of the transgender experience.
- Alice Novic's 2005 "Alice in Genderland" was the first TG book I
read after I met its author. Parts of her life were very close to
mine and parts quite different. She's definitely not a model of
who I want to be, but her life is interesting.
- Janet Mock's "Redefining Realness: My Path to Womanhood, Identity,
Love, & So Much More" (New York: Atria Books, 2014) has been the first
memoir by a trans woman of color and talks about quite a different
reality than the middle class professionals who wrote most earlier memoirs.
- Katie Rain Hill wrote "Rethinking Normal: A Memoir in Transition"( New
York: Simon & Schuster, 2014) at the age of 20. It takes a lot of living
to have enough for a memoir at 20, but after transitioning from male to
female as a teenager in a small town in Oklahoma, she does. I met her over
dinner a month after the book came out, and her life was even worse than
the book portrays, but she is a wonderful (and gorgeous) human being.
Arin Andrews wrote "Some Assembly Required: The Not-So-Secret Life of a
Transgender Teen" (New York: Simon & Schuster, 2014) at the same time as
Katie's book, and in fact was dating her when they got the book offers.
His life is two years shorter than Katie's, he's going the other direction,
and his experiences before and after transition are very interesting as he deals
as much with sexual orientation (pretty much every possibility) as with
gender identity. I liked the fact that this is as much about relationships
as it is about his gender(s).